Incorporating the Montessori Method into your home is an exciting decision, but it can be a bit daunting. Reading Dr.
Montessori’s books can overwhelm us with theory, and while Montessori-inspired
blogs are great sources for ideas, sometimes it seems like these moms must not
only be super-organized, they must invest a lot of time into their set-ups and
activities. Just getting started (or keeping with it) can be a huge obstacle.
But you can successfully incorporate Montessori
into your home in less than five minutes of prep time a day. Here are 10 tips
and strategies to get you started: Forget the detailed
descriptions given in written Montessori presentations and just remember this
one rule: show children how to do things in a clear and orderly way that takes
into consideration their hand size, hand strength, and coordination. Yes, some schools are very precise in how materials should be held, in what
order they should be placed in front of a child, etc, but a lot of this is not
really pertinent in the home.
2 Start out by teaching your child to use one household object per day. For example, grab a teapot, fill it with water, put out a few small cups and a cloth for spills, and teach your child how to pour and serve “tea.” (Bonus points if you actually make tea.) Or show them how to use a child-sized squeegee and spray bottle full of water.
It's okay if you forget to put out a couple of materials at first (I always
forget to add the “spill cloth”), it will start to feel more natural with
practice. If the activity is something that your child enjoys, they might
suggest new activities that they are interested in, maybe asking to serve
cookies with the tea, and a small invitation can transform into an hour or more
of learning.
If you need to DIY your
materials, try to start with simple projects at first to really get a sense of
how much time things can take. I would love to have all of the hours of my life
back that I spent hand-sanding wooden tiles for our colour boxes, dowels for
our red rods and number rods, and the prisms for our brown stair. For the
colour box tiles, I would have been better off either just cutting up paint
chips (and maybe laminating them –
you can use self-adhesive laminating sheets) or purchasing pre-sanded tiles.
Try to do your DIY activities while your child is doing crafts, so you can
create alongside each other and help keep each other focused.
4 Rather than searching for used
Montessori materials (which takes time away from actually planning and setting
up your own activities), put out the word that you are looking for them and let
them come to you. Contact your local Montessori schools and daycares, give them
your contact information, and ask them to get in touch if ever they are getting
rid of materials – my friend scored a TON of quality materials from a school
that was no longer using a specific brand and just requested that she make a
donation in return for the materials.
P Personally, I put up “Wanted” and “In Search Of” (ISO) ads on our area’s version
of Craigslist and within two months I had the majority of the Primary curriculum
materials for $5-10 per material, plus I met two experienced Montessori moms in
my city.
5 Try to set up ways for your
child to explore their interests independently. Interested in bugs? Find a
magnifying glass, maybe borrow a book from the library, and go exploring. You
don’t need to worry about pulling together a whole mini-unit on bugs before you
get started.
Chances are, if your child is
interested enough in something that you want to do a unit study on it, you probably
already have plenty of stuff related to the topic, just try to be flexible. Pick
up a laundry basket and wander through the house grabbing anything that can be
“re-imagined” for your theme. I.E., for a quick construction theme:
- any construction toys or puzzles
- a can of playdoh, a blunt child’s knife (or cake spatula), and wooden blocks to make a fake wall
- plastic tweezers or kitchen tongs to lift blocks (or ice cubes) just like a crane
- books on construction, or things that result from construction (if you don’t have any, you can usually quickly call or hop on your library’s online system and order some books for pick-up for the next time you stop into your local branch)
- a bag of dried black beans and a scoop in a tub for some “tar” scooping (if you have little road signs for a train set or construction vehicles, add them into the tub to make the theme obvious and increase interest
- samples of different construction materials from around your home
7 Try to brainstorm how to make
one task, or area in your home, more independent for your child every week. One
week you can add light-switch extenders, the next, you can put a small end
table in your kitchen and place some bowls, dry cereal, and spoons on it for
self-serving.
8 Keep your ideas organized. I have a giant,
indexed binder that I organize everything into and I jot down everything into
it. There’s sections for “Future DIYs/Projects,” “Mini-unit brainstorms,”
“Kitchen invitations/recipes to try,” “Light table materials,” etc. If
everything is scattered at the moment, try organizing one thing at a time – get
all of your paper notes into a binder this week, next week take notes from your
Pinterest pins.
9 Google whether your city or
town has homeschool groups or children’s resource centers. You might not find
something that is strictly Montessori, but you might find or meet other
like-minded parents and be able to help trade off and share some of the
activity planning burden. Resource centers sometimes have ready-made kits that
you can borrow to engage in a unit study; just unpack and enjoy!
1 And, just have fun! Don’t worry
about doing it perfectly and if you don’t get a chance to pull together an
activity one day (or for a month), just start fresh when you’re ready to go
again.
" Montessori in 5 Minutes a Day" FREE EBook will be published in October 2014. It will contain these ideas and many more. The focus of the Ebook is to make Montessori accessible for parents and teacher who have very little preparation time. Be sure to check in with Study-At-Home-Mama for all the updates!
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