Montessori Tots and Riding in the Car A LOT
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| {Photo of me as a young tot} |
I am a mom of fourteen month year old twins, and soon to be the mother of one more! I am having sort of a moral dilemma. I moved with my
babies and have still not finished unpacking... and there are so many errands to be run. But I'm not sure how I feel
about the idea of traveling in the car with my twins each day
for so long... It interrupts our day and
I know it can't be the best thing for them. I have tried only going
once a week, sometimes twice a week if I can get help, but my house is
still needing a lot of work and time in the car.
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Is there anything you suggest to make it better
for them... I don't
know, maybe this is a good thing that they are going out? If anything,
maybe I can stop feeling like such a bad mother!
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Don't feel like a bad mom! Kids that live in a household where
there is a lot of commuting and or trips to run errands, get used to it
and it is not a BAD thing, you are not hurting their development... And
it is a way of life for many families! So what are some tips to make everyone happier?
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Try to do an
outdoor activity in the a.m., even though you have young ones, let them
play outside for a while. Or if it is raining or too cold, play some
lively music and have movement time.
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In other words, when you know you'll be in the car running errands,
give your children an opportunity to be active for at least 15 to 20
minutes beforehand.\
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It also helps to have a routine, especially when your children are 2
1/2, they will crave order and routine (Montessori Sensitive Period for
Order). So try to do your driving at the same time of day each day or
every other day.
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You can also play tapes or CDs for them to listen to in the car, or
sing preschool songs and nursery rhymes. I don't recommend giving them
food to eat unless you are stopped in a parking lot in between errands
and it is snack or lunch time. Kids can choke while eating and you don't
want to be driving when that happens.
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Over the long term, your children will learn how to shop, go to the
bank, and so forth, which is a plus! At least they won't be sitting at
home in front of the TV!
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After returning home, when they get a little older (2 to 2 1/2) let
them help you put things away, then they can have time outside to play
and be active.
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And if they are doing a lot of sitting in the car, create
"standing" activities at home: a water table, a rice or bean table, a
block or train table, a play dough table. Also, get a small slide and
put it indoors, buy a small trampoline when they are older, and so
forth.
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Hang in there! Children are very adaptable, just try and follow their stage of development, and strike for balance!
~Lisa Nolan
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